There is a story about the disciple of a famous master of the Tea Ceremony. He had made a beautiful bowl and when his master visited one day he served him tea in it. The master didn’t comment on the bowl, didn’t even seem to notice it and the heart-broken disciple threw the bowl into the garden after his master left, smashing it.
He immediately regretted his actions and collected the pieces, then sent them to the pottery repairer to fix.
The next time his master visited, he served him tea in that same bowl, now with visible cracks and staples where it had been repaired.
After finishing his tea the master carefully examined the bowl before saying, “Now it is perfect.”
(Bowl repair from the movie The Road Home starring Zhang Ziyi)
That’s all. If you want to know what that story has to do with anything, you’ll have to read the book and find out for yourself.